Has Sex Cheapened Dating?

I would to love post the actual glorious words of my mysterious contributor "Chicka Boom", but I am currently typing this while talking to her over the phone. She asks a simple question. Has sex cheapened the act of dating? I think collectively we should all answer, YES. "Chicka Boom" believes that dating is nothing more than an extended form of payment for an act of sex. Ouch! Where has the romance gone? Did passion ever exist? I hope for my sake it did! I would hate to believe that men are that shallow or that crafty.

Chicka is fortunate enough to work in an industry where she comes in contact with questions about sex on a daily basis. Chicka works at a porn shop and often while she is waiting for customers to make their way into the store she calls me for a chat. Believe me every night is an adventure. She loves her job, but she is getting tired of men asking her the same question over and over again. "If another guy asks me if there is a easy way to get a girl in bed I'll lose it." No, guys there is no easy way to get a girl to sleep with you! It should be hard work.

In the Gen Y generation, sex has become the journey and the destination in the world of dating. Once upon a time, love was the journey and once you got to the destination you got the pot of gold, the sex. Believe me when I say I am not running some conservative blog here, but women have to start having sex on our own terms.

Take back the power ladies! Dont give it away for free, but dont give it away for money either. Mainly, because that's illegal in most states. Give it away for what most people lack these days, true sincerity. Let me put it this way. If it is really true that most guys as a rule want to make a beeline for your drawers, then find the exception that lies within every rule. Wait for the right guy. It's hard, I know, but you're lowering the value of the stock if you're giving it away for nothing in return.


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